Comments on: Trust http://www.softthistle.net/trust Just me being me! Wed, 08 Sep 2010 13:38:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Kirsty http://www.softthistle.net/trust/comment-page-1#comment-43 Kirsty Sun, 11 Oct 2009 18:47:05 +0000 http://www.softthistle.net/?p=15#comment-43 I find that true love often happens when you aren't looking for it. My boyriend definitely seen me (and helped me through) my worst before he seen me at my best. To me, that indicated that he was willing to wait and help me put myself back together. Neither of us say that we spotted each other across a room and instantly fell for each other - it was more a case of developing a good friendship for over a year before realising we liked each other, had grown to know each other properly etc. It took me a while to trust the opposite sex, but I wouldn't say that distrust was a disadvantage, and I'd say definitely so if you have kids involved. Nothing wrong with a few faceless strangers they don't meet if that tickles your fancy I guess haha! Like you say, you've been through a lot, mainly helping other people - enjoy some time to yourself for a while, you deserve it!! .-= Kirsty´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.kirstylegg.co.uk/news11738.html" rel="nofollow">Looking for Models</a> =-. I find that true love often happens when you aren’t looking for it. My boyriend definitely seen me (and helped me through) my worst before he seen me at my best. To me, that indicated that he was willing to wait and help me put myself back together. Neither of us say that we spotted each other across a room and instantly fell for each other – it was more a case of developing a good friendship for over a year before realising we liked each other, had grown to know each other properly etc.

It took me a while to trust the opposite sex, but I wouldn’t say that distrust was a disadvantage, and I’d say definitely so if you have kids involved. Nothing wrong with a few faceless strangers they don’t meet if that tickles your fancy I guess haha!

Like you say, you’ve been through a lot, mainly helping other people – enjoy some time to yourself for a while, you deserve it!!
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]]> By: Softthistle http://www.softthistle.net/trust/comment-page-1#comment-35 Softthistle Sat, 10 Oct 2009 14:12:49 +0000 http://www.softthistle.net/?p=15#comment-35 I hope so. :) I hope so. :)

]]> By: Adam http://www.softthistle.net/trust/comment-page-1#comment-34 Adam Sat, 10 Oct 2009 13:08:30 +0000 http://www.softthistle.net/?p=15#comment-34 Trust will be hard. Once you lose the ability to love and trust completely you have in your earliest relationships, it's more of an uphill struggle. But, y'know, in my experience that slower, more measured, more testing start to a relationship can be great fun. Take some time, enjoy yourself, and hopefully you'll come accross someone worth learning to trust. .-= Adam´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.tinworth.org/adam/2009/10/the-good-the-bad-the-uke.html" rel="nofollow">The Good, The Bad & The Uke</a> =-. Trust will be hard. Once you lose the ability to love and trust completely you have in your earliest relationships, it’s more of an uphill struggle. But, y’know, in my experience that slower, more measured, more testing start to a relationship can be great fun.

Take some time, enjoy yourself, and hopefully you’ll come accross someone worth learning to trust.
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]]> By: Shelagh http://www.softthistle.net/trust/comment-page-1#comment-33 Shelagh Sat, 10 Oct 2009 12:01:52 +0000 http://www.softthistle.net/?p=15#comment-33 You reckon you could get a bulk discount? :p .-= Shelagh´s last blog ..<a href="http://tripewriting.net/2009/08/19/songs-of-the-auvergne/" rel="nofollow">Songs of the Auvergne</a> =-. You reckon you could get a bulk discount? :p
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]]> By: Softthistle http://www.softthistle.net/trust/comment-page-1#comment-32 Softthistle Sat, 10 Oct 2009 10:48:55 +0000 http://www.softthistle.net/?p=15#comment-32 I'm waaaay ahead of you there... ;) I’m waaaay ahead of you there… ;)

]]> By: Veronica http://www.softthistle.net/trust/comment-page-1#comment-31 Veronica Sat, 10 Oct 2009 10:41:46 +0000 http://www.softthistle.net/?p=15#comment-31 Who knows, maybe there will be someone later down the track who is worth trusting. Until then, stock up on batteries! .-= Veronica´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/somedaywewillsleep/~3/w-AgCvsCjxg/" rel="nofollow">Welcoming…</a> =-. Who knows, maybe there will be someone later down the track who is worth trusting. Until then, stock up on batteries!
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]]> By: Softthistle http://www.softthistle.net/trust/comment-page-1#comment-30 Softthistle Sat, 10 Oct 2009 09:54:21 +0000 http://www.softthistle.net/?p=15#comment-30 I think I really need to have time by myself and be happy in the situation I'm in before even thinking about having another relationship. If that takes a few years then that's just going to be the way it is. Thanks for sharing your story with me, it helps to hear how others' lives turn out. :) I think I really need to have time by myself and be happy in the situation I’m in before even thinking about having another relationship. If that takes a few years then that’s just going to be the way it is.
Thanks for sharing your story with me, it helps to hear how others’ lives turn out. :)

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