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From the category archives:

Relationships

Frustrated

November 2, 2009 Rants

Note: family members of mine may not want to read this, the rest of you… meh)
You know what SUCKS about seeing someone who doesn’t live in the same country?
You can’t actually have sex.
Do you have any idea how frustrating that is??
I am frustrated beyond belief.
Yes, I have toys, but come on – it’s just not [...]

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Can I do this?

October 30, 2009 Ponderings

I want to move on. To find someone else. I do.
But. (there’s always a but isn’t there?)
I don’t want to let myself get hurt again.
I don’t want to let anyone in enough for that to happen.
So I blow hot and cold all the time.
I guess it’s my defence mechanism?
It’s only been 4 months.
Is that enough [...]

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Dammit why me?

October 29, 2009 Rants

Here’s the thing. I kinda like someone. (hello someone)
This is the first guy I’ve liked since the split.
I DON’T KNOW WHAT THE HELL I’M DOING.
He lives in another freakin’ country.
So obviously, it just ain’t gonna happen.
Do you know how much that sucks?
Big Time.
I guess at least that means I am totally ‘over it’ as far [...]

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Once you fuck em, that’s all they want.

October 27, 2009 Ponderings

Yes, this is TMI, and probably more aimed at the girls… if you don’t  like the sound of it, bugger off and come back when I’m more placid.
Well, it’s true isn’t it? You go out with a guy, get to know them, enjoy spending time with them, and finally get to that moment [...]

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Pondering my bloggy-journey.

October 15, 2009 Ponderings

Just a week ago today I opened up softthistle.net to blog.
In that one week I’ve written a post every day. It’s like I’ve found my bloggy mojo all over again, and I’m loving it.
My fresh start, to go with my new start in life. I can write what I want, when I want, and about [...]

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Reflection

October 11, 2009 Relationships

Today is my youngest son’s birthday. He is two years old.
So much has happened in the time since he was born I have found it difficult to not think about it all. Busy trying to stay happyhappy and buoyed up for the boys, when really part of me just wanted to slink off into a [...]

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Trust

October 9, 2009 Ponderings

I am a single mum. Most of you know that. The ex (who shall now be known as Twatface or the sperm donor) called me up 3 months ago to tell me he was leaving me. He had met someone else. It took me a while to get my head around it, but I knew [...]

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